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development of society? This sequence of development is very
important, which is what we are trying for. Hence, my mantra
is, “Empowered woman, empowered family”. It is sad but true,
that the rapid changes in the world around us are causing us to
gradually move away from our ancient heritage. There is a
danger to the very existence of the family system too. India has
been able to withstand negative pressures on the family system
only because of the strength of its women. Men will never be
able to carry out this mammoth task. It is not that I am against
men, but this is a reality that has to be accepted. The success of
the family is rooted in the sacrificing nature of women. We now
need to use this strength for the benefit of society.

Many would question the need for an Aanganwadi
(preschool for children of lower income groups). It is needed
because we need to think about the future. Education might
improve one generation, but an Aanganwadi will improve an
entire century. It is not only a place that looks after children for
two hours a day. Research has proven that the initial three-four
years of a child’s life are crucial for the foundation of his
development. All of us attribute our progress to our school,
college or particular teacher, but this is only partially true. A
large part of his future personality depends on the exposure
received in the first few years. His likes, dislikes and even his
future career prospects are determined in this age. The learning
that he will receive in his entire life, even his IQ are a function
of the inputs received in this age. What is IQ? Let me explain it
with a simple example. If you hang a toy over an infant’s cradle,
he will try to reach out for it with his hands and legs. The sooner
he can catch hold of it, the higher his IQ can be said to be. The
Aanganwadi and its teacher enter the life of a child in this crucial
phase. If she makes a mistake, its effects will be seen on the
entire life of the child and the coming century. The commitment
of the Aanganwadi teacher to her work is essential to provide
these children with a healthy growing environment. It is her
job to ensure that they get the opportunity to see a new world
every day and enhance their grasping power. The approach of
the Aanganwadi teacher can transform lives. However, the